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Wondering whether you're really, truly falling in love with someone? Chances are, you've probably already asked a close friend or family member for the telltale s.


Subscriber active since. Certain factors make it more likely that someone will be smitten with you: if your personality is similar to theirs, if you share the same worldview, or even if you do something as simple as gesture a lot, for example.

Ahead of Valentine's Day, we dug into years of psychological research to find those particular traits and behaviors.

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This is an update of an article written by Drake Baer for Tech Insider. A study found that men and women who make eco-friendly purchases are perceived as more desirable for long-term relationships, while those who make luxury purchases are perceived as more physically attractive and more desirable for short-term relationships. The study notes, "Compared to luxury purchasers, eco-friendly purchasers were ascribed greater warmth, competence, and good partner traits, but less physical appeal, and they were preferred for long-term but not short-term relationships. A study found that men in a speed-dating experiment wanted a woman more when she played hard to get by acting disinterested in questions.

But playing that game made them like her less. This dynamic was only observed in certain situations, though: The men had to feel "committed" to pursuing the woman. If not, her hard-to-get behavior made them neither want nor like her less. Inresearchers conducted experiments on more than 1, people, showing them photographs of members of the opposite sex and asking them how attractive the people in the photos were. showed that men rated women most attractive when they looked happy and least attractive when they displayed pride.

Women, on the other hand, rated men most attractive when they displayed pride and least attractive when they looked happy.

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In one studymen and women were shown a random series of faces, some of which repeated. They were then asked to rate their attractiveness much like a proto-Tinder. For men, familiar faces were rated as less attractive, even ones just shown twice. For women, however, the opposite was true, indicating that the women preferred familiarity in a romantic partner, whereas men wanted novelty. Literally — fill up the physical space around you with hand gestures and an expansive posture. In one studyresearchers observed men and women in speed-dating sessions.

showed that people were twice as likely to say that they wanted to see their partners again when those partners moved their hands and arms, compared to when their partners sat still. For the same study, researchers set up profiles for men and women on a GPS-based dating app, showing them in both expansive and contractive postures.

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Sure enough, people were selected more often when they were pictured in expansive postures. The studies generally found that this was true for long-term partners and married couples as opposed to new ones. According to the work of Canadian psychologist Eric Berne, the best-matched couples vibe on three different levels. His popular books about the model became best sellers, namely " The Games People Play. When two people are really compatible, they connect along each tier. Couples therapist Peter Pearson gave us a few questions for figuring out compatibility at each level:.

Can you be spontaneous? Do you think your partner's hot? Do you like to travel together? Are you good at solving problems together? Back inUniversity of Massachusetts psychologist Joan Kellerman asked 72 unacquainted undergr to pair off and stare into each other's eyes for two minutes. Starting — and growing — a relationship seems to largely depend on how people attend to one another.

After 40 years of studying couples, psychologist John Gottman says it's a matter of "bids. A University of Southern California study of women who were ovulating suggested that some prefer the smell of T-shirts worn by men with high levels of testosterone. This matched with other hormone-based instincts: Some women who were ovulating also preferred men with a strong jaw line.

University of St. Andrews psychologist David Perrett and his colleagues found that some people are attracted to folks with the same hair and eye color of their opposite-sex parents.

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In a experimentIsraeli women read vignettes about men. Whenever the story featured a man who owned a dog, women rated that man as a more suitable long-term partner than a cad who didn't own a dog. The researchers concluded that owning a pet als that you're nurturing and capable of making long-term commitments.

It can also help you appear more relaxed, approachable, and happy. Not into pet ownership? The good news is that simply being seen with a dog can make you seem more dateable. In one studya year-old man approached hundreds of women and asked for their phone s.

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When he had a dog with him, he was much more likely to score their digits. In a studyeach participant was given random photographs of strangers mixed with composite images of themselves morphed with those strangers. They were then asked which ones they were more attracted to, and the participants chose the composites.

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Shana Lebowitz and Ivan De Luce. If you're looking for love this Valentine's Day, there are certain factors that can increase your chances of finding it.

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According to various psychological studies, some of those factors include playing hard to get, owning a dog, and even caring about the environment. Visit Business Insider's home for more stories. If you make eco-friendly purchases. If you play hard to get. If you display the right facial expression. Women prefer familiarity, but men prefer novelty. If you use a lot of hand gestures. If you're really, really similar to them.

If you share three basic compatibilities.

If you're really, really alike

If you stare into each other's eyes for two minutes. If you respond to their "bids" for attention and they do the same for you. If you smell right.

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If you look like their opposite-sex parent. If you take care of a dog.

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